While we often think about our appearance, we don’t really think about the full meaning of what hotness means, and what exactly makes us sexy to potential partners. Surprise: it’s not looking like a supermodel on the cover of a magazine! Here are the qualities that enhance your attractiveness and give you an irresistible presence.

1. You’re naturally confident, but it’s not something you think about a lot or, frankly, are even aware of. You don’t constantly wear a ton of makeup, or obsessed over what other people think. That’s super hot in itself.

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